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So how come up we're frozen doing it all - and fear furtive just about it to boot!?
Welcome to the "Sandwich Generation"!
So more has been scrawled of late astir the "Sandwich Generation" - those caring for some their offspring and their old parents. It's an heavy subject, even more because, piece Baby Boomer men are as well members of the snack food generation, the intense striking is on Baby Boomer women.Post ads:
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Why are women bearing the strength of elder-care? Because we're a wares of our parent's people expectations and they anticipate us - their daughters (and daughters-in-law) - to be their caregivers. For them, it's our job . . . it's simply "what is".
Why do we perceive guilty? Because patch utmost inhabitants presume of Baby Boomers in vocabulary of the self-government and equality of the '60's, our parent's people expectations were instilled in us during our manufacture years, prolonged past the advent of the Women's Movement - expectations which go on to be strong at all crook beside pictures and articles nearly a women's role and culpability as the health care provider.
What can we do? For one thing, we can commence by educating. Educating your employers and co-workers (men as okay as women) on the commercial enterprise contact to concern. For example, that reported to a 1999 national MetLife survey:
Educating your husbands, brothers, and mannish friends on the economic and quality-of-life impact elder-care has on the familial. For example, that:
As near juvenile person care, assistance is on the way!